I wish that when people saw a wedding band, it meant more that showing to other people that they are no longer “available.” People should see the band and smile to know that they have a significant other somewhere in the world for them. Some people use the band like a magical shield against possible sexual invasion. “Stay back,” it screams, “you can’t have me.” Even that sometimes backfires, and it attracts a certain type of person that actually desires such a taboo relationship.